| DATE |
SUBJECT: See Master File |
| 960912 |
Teenagers/drug use |
| 960919 |
Phone manners (or lack thereof) |
| 960926 |
Post-Traumatic Stress syndrome |
| 961003 |
Sharing housework |
| 961010 |
Shame to out-of-wedlock births |
| 961017 |
Out-of-wedlock, cont. |
| 961024 |
Mom's favoritism |
| 961031 |
Pre-marital sex |
| 961114 |
No excuse, sir! |
| 961121 |
Sexual harassment |
| 961128 |
Stalking |
| 961205 |
Not visiting the sick |
| 961212 |
Co-dependency |
| 961219 |
Blame the parents? |
| 961226 |
Holiday blues |
| 970109 |
Paean to Tehama County |
| 970116 |
Counseling vs. Therapy #1 |
| 970123 |
Counseling vs. Therapy #2 |
| 970130 |
Counseling vs. Therapy #3 |
| 970206 |
Counseling vs. Therapy #4 |
| 970213 |
Gambling problems |
| 970220 |
Gambling problems #2 |
| 970227 |
Creative Denial |
| 970306 |
More fish in the sea |
| 970313 |
Workplace discrimination |
| 970320 |
How to talk to your doctor |
| 970327 |
Theology of Easter |
| 970403 |
Neurosis/Psychosis #1 |
| 970410 |
Neurosis/Psychosis #2 |
| 970417 |
Neurosis/Psychosis #3 |
| 970424 |
Neurosis/Psychosis #4 |
| 970501 |
Neurosis/Psychosis #5 |
| 970508 |
Medications vs. psychotherapy |
| 970515 |
Managed care #1 |
| 970522 |
Managed care #2 |
| Rec97 |
Recreation Issue, 1997 |
| 970529 |
Managed care #3 |
| 970605 |
Telephone solicitors |
| 970612 |
Telephone scams |
| 970619 |
Telephone charity & web sites |
| 970626 |
Disciplining grown-up kids at home |
| 970703 |
Are there "born victims"? |
| 970710 |
Supervision, supervision, supervision |
| 970717 |
Micturition (urination) manners |
| 970724 |
Value of work/local web sites |
| 970731 |
Maturity: postponing gratification |
| 970807 |
Fathers wrestling with their kids |
| 970814 |
Viruses: in computers, in movies |
| 970821 |
More on bad taste in movies |
| 970828 |
Reader feedback: a variety |
| 970904 |
Therapist Know Thyself |
| 970911 |
Why do some kids run away? |
| 970918 |
On crying |
| 970925 |
Thoughts about chronic pain |
| 971002 |
Self-inflicted violence (cutting) |
| Xmas97 |
Christmas Issue, 1997 |
| 971009 |
Soccer-field swearing |
| 971016 |
Missed appointments |
| 971023 |
Non-mainstream anorexia treatment |
| 971030 |
A Halloween curmudgeon |
| 971106 |
Wicca as a feminist invention |
| 971113 |
Grief cycle for a dead child |
| 971120 |
Is there really "tone
deafness"? |
| 971127 |
A poem for Thanksgiving weekend |
| 971204 |
Impossibility of unconditional love |
| 971211 |
Why I support local cultural events |
| 971218 |
On hypnosis, #1 |
| 971124 |
Gigapets and toy guns |
| 971231 |
On hypnosis, #2 |
| 980108 |
On hypnosis, #3 |
| 980115 |
The "recovered memory" fad |
| 980122 |
More on recovered memory |
| 980129 |
On memory in general |
| 980205 |
Still more on memory |
| 980212 |
The last of memory |
| 980219 |
No good men/women left? |
| 980226 |
Sanctions against illegitimacy |
| 980305 |
Illegitimacy #2 |
| Home98 |
Home Improvement Issue, 1998 |
| 980312 |
When to stop music lessons |
| 980319 |
When to stop music lessons #2 |
| 980326 |
When to stop music lessons #3 |
| 980402 |
How to feel comfortable in church |
| 980409 |
The "historical" Jesus
come-on |
| 980416 |
The "historical" Jesus
come-on #2 |
| 980423 |
On the recent local double murder |
| 980430 |
The "historical" Jesus
come-on #3 |
| 980507 |
Lessons from a church dinner |
| 980514 |
What is "self-actualization"? |
| 980521 |
Memories of old-time Memorial Day |
| 980528 |
Memorial Day #2 |
| 980604 |
Self-actualization #2 |
| 980611 |
"Not good enough" in English |
| 980618 |
"Not good enough," cont. |
| 980625 |
Generic summer-camp letter |
| 980702 |
Love affair with July 4 |
| 980709 |
"Harmless" flirting |
| 980716 |
Child abuse prevention |
| 980723 |
On Volunteering |
| 980730 |
Synopsis of stalking |
| 980806 |
Responsibility for parents? |
| 980813 |
Why do shrinks charge so much? |
| 980820 |
Death of a friend’s son |
| 980827 |
Eating crow for a Rotarian |
| 980903 |
What is "transference"? |
| 980910 |
Obeisance to Red Bluff |
| 980917 |
Living outside of marriage |
| 980924 |
Courtship and Carpenter’s Glue |
| 981001 |
The placebo effect |
| 981008 |
Meaning of dreams |
| 981015 |
Meaning of dreams #2 |
| 981022 |
Mom between ex and children |
| 981029 |
Three major holidays |
| 981105 |
The perfect, "driven,"
teenager |
| 981112 |
"On Killing," a new book |
| 981119 |
Ordering a spouse vs. requesting |
| 981126 |
Giving thanks to Whom |
| 981203 |
Belief in Santa harmful? |
| 981210 |
Yuletide kudos to locals |
| 981217 |
Too many big words? |
| 981224 |
A Christmas Quiz |
| 981231 |
About New Year’s resolutions |
| 990107 |
On scofflaws |
| 990114 |
Tedd Tripp’s trip(p) |
| 990121 |
Purpose of cheerleaders |
| 990128 |
On spanking |
| 990204 |
Community education opportunities |
| 990211 |
Kids selling for their schools |
| 990218 |
Divorced parents communications |
| 990225 |
High School musicals |
| 990304 |
Tell your mate your dreams? |
| 990311 |
Openness, continued |
| 990318 |
Office satraps |
| 990325 |
Pathological jealousy |
| 990401 |
Kosovo (unpublished) |
| 990408 |
Psychology discovers religion |
| 990415 |
Psych discovers religion, cont. |
| 990422 |
On the Columbine school massacre |
| 990429 |
What’s a healthy relationship? |
| 990506 |
Love as a Verb |
| 990513 |
Children’s "rights" of
privacy |
| 990520 |
Choose your battles with kids |
| 990527 |
Placing children under control |
| 990603 |
Why kids ask "Why?" |
| 990610 |
"Phantom Menace" suitable for
kids? |
| 990617 |
Kids fulfilling obligations |
| 990624 |
Teenaged boys and pornography |
| 990701 |
reprint from 7/2/98 |
| 990708 |
Another slant on the "Why?" |
| 990715 |
Local vs. Big City experts |
| 990722 |
Retired widower needs help |
| 990729 |
Most trial separations aren’t
viable |
| 990805 |
Helping kids find summer work |
| 990812 |
Forced counseling at schools |
| 990819 |
Gross moments in kids movies |
| 990826 |
Brothers sponges off mother |
| 990902 |
Sister goes from man to man |
| 990909 |
Disapproving of dating |
| 990916 |
Son works too hard in school |
| 990923 |
Jail sex criminals forever? |
| 990930 |
Why to we marry our moms/dads? |
| 991007 |
Letter from a retired teacher |
| 991013 |
For Christmas advertising mailer |
| 991014 |
Political Correctness |
| 991021 |
Employees and Computer Games |
| 991028 |
Three Major Holidays (reprint) |
| 991104 |
Why They Kill (book review) |
| 991111 |
Why They Kill, cont. |
| 991118 |
Guests won’t commit for dinner |
| 991125 |
Should kids sit at the dinner table? |
| 991202 |
Must one forgive a family member? |
| 991209 |
Schmaltz in Toy Story 2 |
| 991216 |
What about Pokemon? |
| 991223 |
Christmas gift suggestions |
| 000106 |
To make resolutions or not |
| 000113 |
How sex is super glue |
| 000120 |
More about "Why They Kill" |
| 000127 |
Sex and super-glue, cont. |
| 000203 |
Sex and super-glue, concluded |
| 000210 |
Phone manners |
| 000217 |
Mother doesn’t like nice boyfriend |
| 000224 |
Hard faces on little children |
| 000302 |
Hard faces on little children, cont. |
| 000309 |
Dealing with terminal illness |
| 000316 |
Backseat fighting during trips |
| 000323 |
15-year-old pushes to date |
| 000330 |
Nature vs. Nurture |
| 000406 |
Nature vs. Nurture, cont. |
| 000413 |
Should marriage be 50-50? |
| 000427 |
Good kid starts messing up |
| 000504 |
Can a parent control kids’ music? |
| 000511 |
Control of music, cont. |
| 000518 |
Judge-to-be on control of music |
| 000601 |
Family before right principles? |
| 000608 |
Why grown kids avoid parents |
| 000615 |
Attitude important in teenagers |
| 000629 |
Teenaged "grang" (speech) |
| 000713 |
Is skydiving girlfriend neurotic? |
| 000720 |
Teasing can be cruelty |
| 000727 |
Can former lovers stay friends? |
| onward |
all columns are now online |